1. Love, True love is a choice.
It is an act of the will. When you believe you are in love, then it is a choice.
Next time you say I love you it means I choose you. Whether or not I think you are the best or the most visionary, whether or not this ministry is the most anointed, whether or not I think this business will make me a millionaire fast.
No matter what your pastor tells you, what that motivational speaker tells you, if your will is not involved, then it is not true love. I’ve made up my mind to go your way for the rest of my life. That’s the sound of true love. If I say I love you, I choose you.
2. True love is understanding.
Understanding the value, the worth and the significance of a person or a thing to God, to humanity and to you.
Love is understanding value. So when you are doing that business , you love it only when you see its significance to your life, to kingdom advancement to the world, to your family, etc.
Never say you love any lady whose significance to your life you do not perceive.