Personally I feel relationships are toxic , basically anything connecting people with “ship” at the back has the possibility to be toxic . The two main ones and maybe the only ones I know and I decided to pick out is relationship and friendship . Being in a committed relationship with someone is you defrauding your inner peace and relationship is mainly built on love as an affection which I strongly and firmly believe is the worst type of love. Love as an affection is built mostly on maybe infatuation, people can be connected instantly through eye contacts , holding of hands , texts and so on , that is high level voodoo to me and I don’t understand how that is possible but that aside. Relationships are toxic because they damage your inner peace , even when done in the right way , you are never at peace with yourself because you’ve chosen to take up the mantle of feeling in control over a consciousness that you have no control over and your body and your mind immediately reacts to that and that’s fraudulent, and in the long run, that day to day reaction might lead to a simple decline of your inner peace and mental health. Relationship brings out the envious side of you and that’s toxic , nobody likes an envious person , even the person envying,putting that in the base of everything most relationships don’t work out in the long run , it has it own time span to which it shines its brightest then dims again , most people get into relationships because they are jealous, yes jealous because they don’t want to see you with another person or they can’t stand to see you with another person, doesn’t basically mean they want to be with you or doesn’t mean they love you . It just simply means they are jealous of the thought of you & not of you as a person and what you can bring as a person. Brings me back to friendships, friendships can be toxic in most ways, you can’t really tell if your friend is toxic or not unless they influence you one way or the other , but it’s easier and harder at the same time to get rid of toxic friends , maybe not best friends that one is way above the rest , we won’t go into that , not now for sure , You can be friends with someone for 8,9 years or even a life time and it’s all good vibes , not attached but genuine love for each other and wishing each other the true best and sometimes it can be two days or three days and it’d be more meaningful than the one of a life time , the connection with friendship has to with choice maybe that’s why the overturn of a failed relationship to a failed friendship seems to be worse because sometimes we don’t choose it , we just flow with the wave , that saying used to be manipulative until recently , it’s a sentence of extreme power
The saying it is what it is , the most recent power display this generation has shown , we’ve not only come to terms that the world is a wicked place full of wicked people who teach us wicked thesis which they can’t back up , we’ve deviated ways to stay truthful to ourselves while enlighten ourselves on what we believe is right or wrong according to experiences not expectations. Relationship is a sinking ship in this modern society because we can clearly see the use of being in healthy space of our own and not in a committed connection of insane control , we’ve seen the power of inner peace and mental security , while still having filings , orgasm , looking after the ones we genuinely care for and getting paid without losing ones mind , gone are the days when not being in a relationship or being forced to commit are gone , I’m not saying commitment is totally bad , but un healthy commitment is very bad and there is nothing bad In putting one self first . The ship hasn’t sank completely , but while trade a healthy connection for a committed relationship, anything connection you tag to something you’ve spoilt the IP address of that connection.