Having crappy, fake friends can make even the best situation quite horrible, and the worst of life’s trials just… hellish.
Real friends are there for you when you need them, are fun and supportive, and will call you out on your bullsh*t or crappy life choices because they love you, not because they want to make you feel bad. Here are some ways to identify a fake friend amongst you
1. You Only Hear From Them When They Need Or Want Something
“Oh, hey… I haven’t talked to you in forever, how are you doing? Are you free next weekend? See, I’m moving and I’m going to need some help parking some stuff. They’ll appreciate you in the moment, sure, and thank you with pizza and beer and what have you, but then you won’t hear from them again for at least six months until something else comes up that they need help tending to.
2 they Go Ballistic If You Call Them Out On Poor Or Hurtful Behavior
If you tell a true friend that they’ve said or done something that’s upset you, they’ll apologize and try to make amends.
If you tell a fake friend the same thing, they’ll likely get defensive, lose their sh*t at you, start fabricating lies to make you feel that you’re the one who’s in the wrong, and then stop talking to you for a while.
3 They Disappear When You Need Them
Funny how you may always be there for your friend when they need you, but when you need something in turn, they’re nowhere to be found.
Yeah, that’s not a real friend at all.
That’s that there are more ways but I think we should all ponder on these facts and check ourselves
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