Most of the failed relationships that lead to heartbreak were fundamentally designed to fail. When starting a relationship, it is important you define the relationship, it's limit and where it will end. A young man may enter a relationship without the intention of marriage, while the lady involved in such hook, may be thinking and concluding marriage. If this is not well defined from the beginning, with time when the obvious will be irresistible, there is bound to be an heartbreak. The same goes to the ladies, a lady may decides to go into a relationship just for protection, to have someone to keep her comfortable for the moment or to pay her bills without necessarily having mind of marriage, while the young man involved may be concluding in his mind yes I have found my missing rib. Suddenly he proposes and she said no "let just be friends ".
Relationships require commitment from both partners. There will be a breakup if overtime only on partner is committed, most times when it is newly started, the dearth of commitment from one will not be obvious and therefore be ignored coupled with the initial attractions. But overtime this becomes so open and perhaps they must have gone far deep. This is capable of wiping out the initial intentions and love.
Additionally, it is possible to remain and work out the differences if there is understanding and maturity. Absence of those can lead to heartbreak .
Some young people go into relationships not because they are in love. In fact some are fully aware that they are not ready for committed relationship but because they want to satisfy the body filled with lust, failed to give it a thought before entering it. All they wanted was to have s3x with the other person or to make money from the opposite s3x
and can go to any length to achieve that without minding the consequences including the use of deceit and fake promise of marriage.
It is also noteworthy, that there are several factors that can result in relationships breakup that causes heartbreak. But this post summaries all into three major headings which
include inability to define a relationship from beginning, lack of commitment and immaturity and immediate gratification of bodily desires without giving it a thought.
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